After a brief visit stateside, I’ve returned to Europe; the time here will be well into 2025. I’ve planned more of a life change, so saying good-bye to family and friends felt different, because my resident visa brings me closer to obtaining the second passport. In addition to purchasing a home a few years back, I feel fortunate for the approval of the much sought after, free-to-low-cost National Health Care Insurance, which is one of the main reasons why Americans relocate to Portugal. And more importantly, I casted my vote in the U.S. primary, through the absentee registration program, allowing the ability to vote in the upcoming November 2024 election. This last matter was a priority, because of what’s at stake for the US and the world.
Packing has become more and more narrowed and compartmentalized, because there’s no need to pack the kitchen sink. After all, Europe isn’t on another planet. It takes mindful discretion on what to bring and what not to bring. Would I get to the point of selling the whole lot of things I’ve collected? This is a situation I’m confronted with—if maintaining two residences in two separate countries is logical. Right now, my home in the States welcomes me back with familiar communities and people I’ve known.
Funny how one can fill up their home with things and things, and when a fire threatens, quickly decide in seconds what to take. My favorite CD’s, books (in English!), and collected artwork, I couldn’t say why I’d pay extra for a larger shipment, except that these treasures mean something tangible, real, and I couldn’t part with them. You see, I’m a collector of smiles and happiness for those things dear to my heart. I feel the same way about friends and family to whom I’ve extended invitations to visit.
There’s a rise in Americans seeking relocation to Portugal (or other parts of the world). And from reading several of my Facebook groups, an urgency for answers fills the posts: the visa process, work permits, cost of living, what areas to live, and how much are one’s monthly expenses. I think this stress is either because of the upcoming election or knowing friends who have taken the leap. For example, there are approximately 800,000 foreign residents living in Portugal, almost twice as many as 10 years ago. Contrary to public opinion, Americans make up only a small portion.
As I said before, moving to another country isn’t for the faint of heart. But as you age, and things aren’t working where you are, there’s nothing wrong with choosing another book and hoping for a happier turn of the page.
Come and visit! Pack light, bring an open mind, and let the rest take care of itself.
There are many reasons why one would leave the US at this point in time. I think your moving to Europe has little to do with that. Europe, especially for the artist represents a deep rich culture that feels more like coming home.
Changing paths and experiencing this new life has been rewarding. No, it’s not because of the politics that charted this journey, but because of the sense that there was something calling me. There was nothing that spelled out to me to leave the States, except for the boredom of living the same without excitement. I have often read James Baldwin’s take on living in Europe. His thoughts have long resonated with me. In sum: “All artists should experience the joy of the unexpected waking up in Europe, particularly Paris, where life begins and ends with beautiful uncertainty.”
Hello Cheryl, Again you have expressed, reflected on similar issues I have and still face in terms of making a home outside the US. I find myself at 77 questioning what books, ‘things’ et al to keep and what to let go.
I plan on staying here in my place in Greece at least for the foreseeable future. The journey that I’m facing is one of acceptance and what needs attention at this ‘end of life,’ period. There are no plans to ‘exit’ any time soon but I want it to be in a responsible manner; that is to have my affairs in order which includes enacting considerable downsizing.
My friends, my books are proving challenging, however a first step has been made in speaking with a local Greek woman who teaches English as a second language and seems happy to receive whatever books I want to pass on. In addition, I have a referral to the American College of Greece in Athens that apparently would be interested for their large library.
One step at a time as I turn the page of a new book in the unfolding mystery of my life.
Thank you, as always for your sharing and invitation to visit. Who knows perhaps one of these days. Hope so. If you find yourself further East in Greece, do let me know.
Zoe, thank you for your response to what I consider an important reflection of the next journey of my life. I see each day as something I was intended to do and live. There’s many times when I visualize the future, and where I am now, is always in plain view.
Hey, Cheryl… Good hearing from you and knowing you’re doing well is a blessing. Yeah, things are a little ‘krazy out here, but we’re still doing good,,It’s a blessing to be alive with a roof over your head, food to eat, family & friends,,, and there are some that don’t have that,,, I do, and I thank God for that and pray for those who don’t. It is challenging around the world but we just gotta’ make the best of it. You all be safe out there and enjoy yourselves. God Bless!
Ah Edythe, life is challenging all over the world. The point is make the most of what you have and make decisions about your future you can live with.
Oh, and nothin’s ‘ in my suitcase yet,, gotta’ see where iI wanna’ go LOL!!
But…you have so many clothes!!!
Cheryl,
I’ve been remiss! I’m just now getting around to reading your blog for May. Living in Portugal has proven to supercharge my life. Chuck and I have made more day-trips, eaten out with friends more frequently, explored more parks, taken more photowalks, and so much more in the past year than we would have made in 10 years in the States. I keep promising myself to cut back, restructure my time, shift the focus to “high value” activities. But the problem is always the same. There is so much to do and see here.
While one of the reasons I left the U.S. was the rancorous political dialogue, both among politicians and among friends, I find that I can’t escape it entirely. True, I sabotage my efforts at peace and calm by reading my American news feed, but I want to be an informed voter in November. These two goals are mutually exclusive.
Perhaps I should approach my dilemma the way you approach packing — narrowed and compartmentalized?
Steve
While there is no perfect place, as we witness the political agenda of the world. One can hope within this search for an ideal place to settle, there’s a bit of peace they will find. I never thought there would be place for me in Europe, because it was a very distant dream. Now, while I move about each day, I see and feel a peace not felt within the normalcy I had as an adult. The friends and experiences I have gathered about me have brought happiness and much peace of mind, enough to hold more dear to me, as if they precious gems.